Isaiah 43:2 

Friday 6/15/18

• Wendy's American mom Terry was able to get a flight at a good time with no stops

• The flight was smooth and on time

• The ride home was safe and quiet

• Fair night of rest- Wendy had some pain. 

 

Saturday 6/16/18

• felt peace of making the decision to go to the hospital

• The process to admission was smooth and little waiting

• Wendy had a visible peace about her that was truly from God

• D’Rae was the first nurse- kind, caring, & compassionate

• Dr on call Dr. Hargus– kind and compassionate- gave the option to start induction

• Agreed to have an ultrasound to verify Isaiah's heartbeat had stopped.

• It seemed the waiting on the ultrasound was long but we agreed it was God’s timing – we were able to pray and talk and answer Wendy & Gary’s questions

• The ultrasound technician was very kind and offered to give u/s photos

• Waiting for the doctor to return seemed long- she had an emergency surgery

• Began Cytotec 4:30 – we prayed for the medicine to be effective and work quickly and little pain to Wendy 

• Hospital gave a keepsake box filled with items: journals, lotion, candle, chopstick, pen, gum, candy.

• Wendy decided to start Little Isaiah ministry responding to God's calling to help other grieving parents see God even in such a tragedy.

• Given information about photos and funeral homes and autopsy

• 7 pm evening nurse, Becky, came on shift.  She shared with Wendy her loss at 30 weeks.   

•  God sent Backy to Wendy's life at this special moment.

 She comforted Wendy with Psalm 139. 

For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb.

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,

your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.

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• Had the second dose at 8:30 – pain began about 9 pm

• Wendy got pain medicine in IV and was able to sleep/rest for about hour and half

• Wendy started having some pain but most time tolerable 

• Asked for another pain med about 11:10 – which was early- but the doctor approved it --Becky brought in medicine about 11:15

• The pain was getting really bad but Wendy was able to breathe through them – Gary coaching and reassuring her

• 11:40 pain very severe – Becky checked and Wendy was dilated to a 3 and could 

•      feel the baby's head

• Becky called the doctor and she was there in seconds

• Wendy’s pain was intensifying and she was wanting to push 

• The  doctor & Becky got everything ready very quickly

• Gary was helping Wendy breathe through the pains

• When the doctor lifted the sheet Isaiah was beginning to come out – perfect timing

• Wendy never had to push – the contractions were enough to assist Isaiah out

 

Sunday-6/17/18

• At 12:10 am Isaiah came out with the placenta in the amniotic sac, which was still intact 

• The doctor placed Isaiah on the table – she broke the sac and Isaiah was so beautiful

• The doctor wrapped him in a blanket and gave to Wendy and Gary

• Wendy was not in any physical pain- she remained peaceful and content 

• They spent time with their son

• Gary thanked Wendy for the Father’s Day gift- Isaiah

• The doctor told them that an autopsy could be done & they want it 

• Wendy and Gary decided to have professional pictures done. This special service was offered by NILMDTS (Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep)

• Gary admits he was struggling and asking for prayer for peace like Wendy

• They were able to get some rest

• Funeral homes were called – from the list only one responded ‘I will be praying for you all” -  that is the one Wendy and Gary chose to use, Stockdale Moody Funeral Service in Rogers. The cost is $0.

• The volunteer photographer from NILMDTS came – she was so tender and compassionate.  She cried along with Wendy & Gary as she took pictures she stayed and prayed with us.  

• Hospital Chaplain came and talked with W & G – he knows one of their church 

       members and their church

• The ride home was safe – Wendy was able to get some rest 

• Spoke with several people- an autopsy number that was given to us, D’Rae-Wendy’s 

nurse, the pathologist, Lizhen (who is a member of their church),  and Christy, the head nurse at the hospital - We asked if the doctor would write an order for the autopsy so the insurance will pay for it.   Christy left a phone message and email the doctor. ​

• Church family brought more food 

• Wendy and Gary went through Isaiah’s things from the hospital 

• After dinner Bible study began – Wendy wants to study in the book of Isaiah – 

     amazing study and fellowship.

• Until today, Gary and Wendy keep family Bible study as their daily routine. Because of Isaiah's death, they realized that God called them to rebuild the family altar and live in a life of worshiping and praising God.

 

Monday 6/18/18

• Good nights rest 

• Church family continued to bless us with food

• Gary was feeling more peace

• Flight for Wendy’s mom (biological mom in China) was changed – American Airline didn’t charge them the fare difference, only the fee for changing

• Christy called me as Lizhen was sending a text – doctor wrote the order for the autopsy. God answered our prayer.

• At 2:45 PM, We went to Funeral home- the director Lisa was so sensitive and compassionate 

• Gary  & Wendy had such peace during this time at the funeral home

• After dinner- family Bible study- blessed talk and worship to God

 

Tuesday- 6/19/18

• a great night of rest

• a couple from the church came- they were surprised how well Wendy and Gary were doing. Wendy and Gary shared with them all the blessings God has provided.

•  Wendy & Gary comforted them  with God’s strength – an amazing fellowship time

• Wendy shared how God is wanting her to serve to help other women struggling with the loss of a baby

• Gary had a conviction from God and shared with Wendy and then Terry mom– his struggles and repentance and dedication to God

• We went through Isaiah’s clothes and blankets and toys and packed them all safely -

• Fruit brought by a church sister

• We went for a walk – Wendy is getting stronger

• We had a good nap/rest

• Tiger came bay for a visit- it was a sweet fellowship – he left about 10 pm

• We had another great Bible study time

 

Wednesday -6/20/18

• a wonderful night of sleep

• We went to the funeral home to order the heart shape box for Isaiah’s ashes and W & G rings with Isaiah's handprint and footprint-They both have such a calm spirit and peace.

• Wendy's mom safe trip- the seat next to her was empty so she was able to sleep

• The only thing that counts is Faith expressing itself through Love. Galatians 5:6